Joseph D. Hayes, MS, LPC, NCC writes on EMDR, family systems, attachment, and the emotional patterns that shape us. Below are his published articles, press releases, and features. Each opens on the site where it was published.
A look at how a child's struggles can reveal unfinished emotional patterns in the parent — drawing on attachment theory, Jungian ideas of shadow, and Bowen family systems. The invitation is to notice the pattern, not only the behavior.
Read on MediumEducational releases distributed through EIN Presswire, sharing clinical observations on litigation stress, psychosis, family patterns, and relationships.
Why recurring arguments in relationships are often less about the topic at hand and more about protective responses formed long before the relationship began.
Read the releaseAnnouncing the collaboration between Counselor Joe and Federico Mendez, MS, LMFT-S, bringing together trauma counseling, EMDR, attachment, Jungian insight, and family systems theory.
Read the releaseOn what prolonged legal conflict can do to a person's ability to function inside the process — and why withdrawal or exhaustion is often misread as disinterest.
Read the releaseA plain-language look at why reasoning with a delusion rarely lands, and what family members might do instead when someone they love is experiencing psychosis.
Read the releaseThe first in the litigation-stress series, describing the emotional toll that extended high-conflict disputes can place on the people inside them.
Read the releaseA profile of Counselor Joe's path into counseling and the approach he brings to working with adults and veterans in East Texas.
Read the featureA look at the therapeutic traditions behind his work — Gestalt, existential thought, and EMDR — and how they inform the way he sits with clients.
Read the featureOngoing reflections on trauma, the nervous system, attachment, and family patterns.